I know I’m probably going to get flamed for this but I’m so confused I need other opinions.
About 3 months ago now I started seeing someone, I really liked him, he met my friends they thought he was great, we really got on. We’d see eachother a couple of times a week. We would text all day, he would ring me in the morning before work and we’d spend hours on the phone at night. He’d say how he could see a future with me and that he was in love with me!
A month ago I had a message of someone I didn’t know saying he had a girlfriend, I asked him and he denied it. Person that messaged me on fb gave me her name and I messaged her, she said they were together, we spoke on the phone and I told her everything.
Still he didn’t leave me alone, he would still text and call constantly, asking if we could talk about things saying he misses me and can’t lose me etc. He even messaged my best friend saying he was in love with me and I was all he could think about bla bla bla, I sent the lot of the messages all to his girlfriend. She decided to stay with him. He still didn’t leave me alone and obviously didn’t care what she thought. I said me and him were over and if he really felt that way about me he wouldn’t be with her. A week later I had a gift and flowers delivered to my house of him!
This is where I fucked up, I ended up agreeing to see him to talk about things. He said his gf has been threatening to kill herself if he leaves her and all that bollocks. I know it’s all probably shit but why is he doing this to me? Telling me all this crap about missing and loving me saying it’s me who he wants to be with, literally won’t leave me alone. I feel really naive even posting but I really started liking him, I’m pretty much asking to get hurt aren’t I? My head has been a mess with it all. I feel like there is something between us but bottom line is he hasn’t left her!