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A bit of help please

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user1497800655 · 26/06/2018 07:02

I have been lurking a while and just looking for a bit of help.......

OH is working away at the moment, not a problem as I go down sometimes at weekends and stay at his lodgings which are great.

Had a phone call last Friday from his workmate to say has the company been in touch as he has had an accident early on in the day and in hospital and his phone is at work. I cant get hold of anyone who knows anything so I make the four hour drive not knowing anything and by this time it is late in the evening.

Long story short Broken ankle, broken ribs and nasty cut to his abdomen which had a few stitches, and not feeling at all too well Obviously I am fuming that his company has not called me (or his mother for that matter) and we are registered as next of kin, not forgetting he has not got someone to call me either from the hospital. Its is the same old I don't want to bother anyone sort of stuff which annoys the hell out of me.

Apart from that I was looking through his bag to get him a a new T-shirt and in the bottom was a ring and a days voucher for a SPA day.
I feel a little guilty that he was going to propose and I have found out, and apart from being really exited he has not done it yet!!!!! My boss has allowed me the week off work so is this a secret I should keep to myself or what?

OP posts:
Kinunir · 26/06/2018 09:28

Yes, definitely keep it to yourself - the poor man has had a serious accident so I doubt he's in the right place to be making that romantic proposal right now! Give him time to recover.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 26/06/2018 09:52

Poor guy, he's had a nasty accident and you're pissed off with him? Shock can do all sorts of funny things. He probably assumed someone else had called you.

Definitely keep it to yourself and help him recover! This time is not about you.

TellsEveryoneRealFacts · 26/06/2018 09:55

The ring and spa day - might not be for you so that might be why you were not contacted...sorry.

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