I was just wondering from peoples perceptions and experience whether it affects the chance of getting back together?
I've read a lot online about when a woman moves on and doesn't want a guy to fight for them then it's best to just walk away but it seems a lot of people in this boat are fighting for a girl in the twenties and thirties age bracket.
Long story short I have recently broken up with a woman who is 45 (I'm 38) and I want to fight for her but don't know whether I might be fighting a losing battle or if it might be different from younger girls who might have more options and might be a bit less mature.
We broke up mutually around 4-5 weeks ago, I was hurting a lot and read all about the no contact rule so blocked her and said I couldn't do the just friends thing (very immature I know but I was hurting). The block only lasted 4 days and then I unblocked her and apologised, told her I loved her and how I wanted to be with her. We got back together but over the last month things just haven't felt the same so I called her out on it over the weekend and she said 'things changed when you blocked me'.
I sent her a long heartfelt message afterwards saying how I am prepared to fight for her and want to be with her and her reply was 'lets leave it for now, I'll call you in a few days'.
I haven't heard from her since and have not messaged her so am giving her time and space.