18m ago i left my H to move with kids 40m away.
Both kids have SEN and it was an agreed move to a particular school.
Kids school is closing so i need to decide what to do now. H says 'you have to come back'. I dont want to, at least not to live with him. Ive been happier, kids have been happier without our old acrimony.
On Sat we had a short convo about money while parked. He has been paying our old mort (£285pcm) and has had sole use of a 4 bed house. 6m before we moved out we took out a £10K loan (repayments of £175 pcm). These are joint debts. He now wants me to pay half. I said 'yes that is fair' but perhaps we need to work it all out with a formal separation? I have received no maintenance from him at all and he has done no formal childcare at all (except look after kids at mine for 4 days after i had a major Op). I have paid all costs my end.
He took the keys out of the ignition and hit me in the face with them. Fortunately, i put my hands up so just my phone screen cracked. One of my fingers was badly swollen but its gone down now. He stormed off saying: 'next time i see you, it'll be in Court'.
i'd hoped we were being reasonable about this and putting kids first but now i feel really worried what my options might be.