in my opinion anyway, what do you think? She's 7 mnths pg and been with bf for 18m. Twas joint decision to have a baby, though he was more keen than she. She's at home most nights (like most people) but he insists on going out on the town/playing cards 2-3x per week, plus works late shift in pub. He hardly spends time with her and when he does go out its rare he's back before 3 am. He's not messing around, its just the fact that he HAS to go out and chooses to over her. She's very insecure (always has been with low self esteem) and now goes totally OTT, ringing him to find out where he is, when's he coming home so she's not helping the situation at all, pushing him away in fact. How would you feel if this was happening in your relationship. When she talks to him about it he says that this is what all blokes do (mine doesn't). She says she loves him and he can be very lovely to her. If this relationship ends she'll be on her own with baby and will not be able to afford mortgage, therefore will have to sell house and move in with parents. He's 28, she's 32.