Extremely suddenly seem to not be able to stand DP

[Hamandcheesebaguette]

What has happened?!

We have had our issues in the past, as most couples. But we really have come out the other side and have been happier and better suited than we have been for years. He has really turned himself around and is the man I always wanted him to be and knew he could be if he tried. There isn't any reason that I can see for me feeling like this.

However, the last week or so. I hate him. His very being is annoying me. I cannot stop snapping at him. I just want him to go away and leave me alone.

I have never felt like this about him. I have always loved him so much, and the thought of being without him would make me feel devastated.

Even his bad traits, which I have never been blind too, but in the past have been a minor inconvenience are making me want to tell him to pack his bags and fuck off.

I came off the pill three weeks ago (not to try for a baby, for health reasons). Is this why i suddenly hate him?

I cannot understand why I feel like this all of a sudden and would quite like not to. I don't want our relationship to end.

Any chance your pregnant?

I Hated DH for a least the first month EVERYTHING he did was so annoying, irritating....he went fishing alot :)

After about a month things got back to normal :)

Hormones playing up?

I was coming on to suggest you may be pregnant, however I see you have recently come off the pill.

There’s 2 days a month where I feel like that about my DH, the rest of the time I love every fibre of his being, so we have put it down to hormones and spend less time together those days! I would suggest that it may be your hormone levels rebalancing after stopping the pill.

Maybe give it some time to settle before you start packing his bags!

From your title I was going to ask if you'd just come off the pill.

Not sure though if your hormones will settle or if your dp is really annoying but the pill shielded you from his true personality

@RedFin I had been worried about that exact same thing!!!!! Is that even a thing?!

Not exactly the same but I'm peri menopausal. There are some days I can't stand being in the same house as DH - and he's not done anything differently than normal.

Ham I'm sure it'll all work out but I remember reading/seeing something about people choosing a partner based (subconsciously) on scent/pheremones as they gave genetic information and you would therefore pick the person who complemented yours the best so your children would have the strongest genes. But the pill stop women receiving the usual cues. Something like that.
But I'm not on the pill and for no reason about a fortnight ago I was so irritated by my DH. I actually thought I had the misfortune to marry the most annoying man on the planet . The feeling passed thank god! I'm sure it happens to everyone at some point!

I am SURE it's just your hormones!! Give it three months (maybe find a hobby haha!) and if you still feel the same, you'll need to investigate why suddenly everything has gone tits up. But don't make any big decisions while you're coming off the pill, it takes months for that stuff to get out your body truly.

This ties in with my belief that it's only when you're premenstrual that you see the world as it really is!

I like that theory hollow

I was about to ask if you were pregnant , my partner suddenly really started to annoy me when I was early pregnancy , his smell the way he breathed etc everything . It’s away now but must have been hormones at the time .

It’s the heat too. I’m ready to kill mine to bits.

I think it might be a combination of coming off the pill combined with a very busy time at work (making me irritable) AND him being on a stupid sodding diet that he clearly isn't enjoying and is making him an irritating moody sod.

I have come to this conclusion because 1. Mostly everyone does seem to be irratiting me one way or another past couple of weeks and 2.he decided to break his diet for a nandos today and he had a chip. It might be the first time I've seen him smile for about 8 days. A full beamy handsome smile from his lovely smooshy face. See I do love him sometimes!

He's gone to make his diet breakfast and lunch for tomorrow and is annoying my being so I'm off to drown chill in the peaceful bathroom in the bath.

@RedFin your misfortune at marrying the most annoying person on earth comment made me really laugh and my tea got stick in my throat

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Ham glad it made you laugh! I might have added a little bit to you warming up towards your DH! Along with his Nandos !

I came off the pill about 5 months before my wedding and had a couple of months of dire times with DH. Came close to calling off the wedding. He would do things like hang up the laundry to be helpful and I would think he was having a dig at me for not hanging it up quickly enough. He was just trying to be helpful. I was basically insane! Now we couldn't be happier

I get like this in the week leading up to a full moon.