Hi all I'm not a person to post but really need help. I've been with my partner/ex for 14 years and have 4 children. 5
months ago we both amicably separated as we had lost the connection and the passion/love. We love each other but not in the way we should.
We was working towards rebuilding and seeing where life takes us but hoping we could get back. He wasn't living with me.
We always got on etc our passion and attraction was coming back as still slept together etc.
Well I found out that he actually has been in a relationship for 4 months someone he connected with. He said he had feelings but wasn't ready to let me move on. Basically he had the best of both worlds.
I am absolutely devastated by this.
I'm struggling to come to terms. I gave him ultimatum come back or that's it and he said he can't but he is no longer with this other woman.
I'm just struggling I know it's the end but I'm scared I'm 29 nearly 30 and never had to start again!!! Any advice or anything would be great. Thanks Emma