what do I do

[user7896]

married for 25 years been , I but my career on the back burner while the children were young now both away from home he has been away all week with work took a few days holiday this week Dh said we would go away however no money . Had to stay at home. Were are in debt but paying it off however I discovered he has been spending lost of money on the children. Try to make a nice evening make to most of things however he goes off one after I brought up the fact we were meant to be away and pushes the door breaking it and then heads off to bed . I don't thing I can be bothered with I any more. With so much going on and history is it worth it to continue ?

If you're asking the question there's probably only one answer. You need to have an honest discussion about where you are both up to. Apathy an resentment grow if you ignore things. Good luck!

thanks nomoremrsnighguy Im thinking that might part of the problem on my part, I have been mentioning to DH that im getting close to leaving him to do my own thing but he seams to think spend all our spare money on the kids is the answer,

Hi user7896, It sounds like you regret putting your career on the back burner but if your children have moved away from home why not re-train and start a fresh career that you enjoy and will bring in money too.