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Lying boyfriend..šŸ™„

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Miasmom · 22/06/2018 18:47

I’m heavily pregnant and my boyfriend started speaking sexually to another girl. He has been very distant lately, ignoring me and not spending any time with me. He was hiding his phone so I had a hunch something was wrong. I found out and he made lots of hollow promises saying he would spend more time with me and not go out without me for a while. He also blocked this girl off of all social media. He has broken all the promises but I want my child to have its father-_- I’m so angry and upset idk if it’s just hormones maybe all men don’t want to be with their pregnant girlfriends. Tonight he’s gone to the cinema without me and idk why he’s not apologising for emotionally cheating and trying to make it up to me! Any advice appreciated!

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category12 · 22/06/2018 18:52

He's probably gone with this girl.

He's not apologising and trying to make it up to you because he doesn't care and doesn't think it matters, cos you'll stick with him no matter what.

Dump him.

LetMeGo66 · 22/06/2018 19:17

I know it’s hard to hear becuase your pregnant with his baby but if he really thought he’d done wrong he would be trying to make it up to you. And if he really really loved you he wouldn’t have done it in the first place.

whattodowheretogo · 22/06/2018 19:20

If he loved and respected you he wouldn't have done it.

It's NOT all men. I've had some arseholes for boyfriends but I've also had at least three exes who would never have dreamed of doing this.

Your baby can have a father but he doesn't have to be in your life.

When you're ready, find someone who respects you!

RatRolyPoly · 22/06/2018 19:22

Don't do this to yourself. You want your baby to have two parents together but at what cost? It's not worth it!

We all have a vision in our minds of how we want the future to be, especially for our kids. But then life happens and you just have to do the very best you can with what you've got. The "very best" that you can do is not to waste time with this man who cares so little about you.

I'm sorry Flowers

Daydreamer2407 · 22/06/2018 19:41

He thinks because you're pregnant you're not going anywhere and he can treat you how he wants. He's cheated on you and isn't even sorry. Horrible situation to be in when pregnant x

TroubledLichen · 22/06/2018 19:45

It’s not your hormones, your boyfriend is an unfaithful, lying twat. Of course you should be angry and upset, he’s treating you like crap. I’m very sorry you’re going through this Flowers

Barbaro · 22/06/2018 19:53

I would go to the cinema and see who he cones out with. Guaranteed its that girl. Then you can dump him on the spot and lock him out of the house. You deserbe far better than a boy who can't be a man and stand by his pregnant girlfriend. The other girl can have him.

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom · 22/06/2018 19:58

If it was me, when he came back from the cinema he wouldn't be coming in the house.
He's mugging you off, do not let him-how you deal with this will set the standard going forward-that is if you want to stay in the relationship...

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