I have been with my fiancé for 5 yearss, engaged for just over a year and he is a fantastic man. I love him deeply, but I think I'm falling for another man and it's killing me inside.
I met this guy through work and we have been nothing but good friends. We worked together for 6 months, I found a new job but we stayed in contact almost daily. We give advice to each other, have a few laughs, that kind of thing. He is funny, thoughtful and a real gentleman. Conversation has never been inappropriate, a little flirty st times but that's it. He went off the radar for a week and he was arrested and is awaiting trial for his alleged crime (don't want to go into it but it was non-violent, non-sexual). He called me from jail to tell me what had happened and I said if he needs a friend I'm here at the end of the phone.
The trouble is, he is in my head day and night. We will never be together but I just want to stop thinking about him and move forward with my life. I want a future with my partner but I'm eaten away by the guilt of having another man in my mind literally 24/7.