Me and my fiance of 7 years recently went on a small break in our relationship due to arguing we continued to live together and after 3 weeks decided to resolve our issues and are due to go on holiday.
Stupidly during this time I started texting a work colleague who then admitted he 'fancied' me a lot of texting occurred then I told him I was making things work with my fiance and we shouldn't text anymore. He's recently separated from his wife too.
The problem is he literally won't stop texting me I've asked him many times and told him I won't be replying. He even shows up in work on his days off and approaches me, sends me messages on FB through the night. I really don't know what to do, I know I am partly to blame but now he just won't leave me alone 