Love or Marriage

[Priyac]

Hi all
I m married fallen in love with someone else . My husband & I had differences he is controlling but on other end caring . I had mother in law issues which my husband was not very much supportive
I meet this guy & I fall in love I was tired of my marriage so I started looking outside . My husband & I had issues in sex as well I was not satisfied . Now the problem is whom should I choose lover or husband , My husband is trying to improve after he came to know about my affair with my lover . My husband does not want to leave me so do my lover . I have been married for 8 yrs & I am with my lover for 5 yrs I m Indian so I get all kind of family pressure in our culture leaving married is not an option it’s v v difficult to go so .

Now the prob is I m confused what to do & how to go forward . My husband is very settle man he earns good we have our own house etc , on the other hand my lover is still struggling with all .

If you are in love with another person then how is that fair to your husband? So basically, if you stay with your husband it will be because he has more money than your boyfriend? Do you have kids?

No kids involved I cannot have kids till this is sorted

I think you know the answer, you don't love your husband anymore by the sound of it

I don’t want things to go wrong that’s all

If you can cheat on your husband for 5 years you clearly don't love him. Move on and allow him the chance to get over you and find someone else. It's really the only fair thing to do.

Yes I m planning to move out soon