Ahh I just need to rant. My dh is literally pushing me until I can take no more.
All he does is moan and mon about everything. He started today moaning about his job. I already sat down with him rewrote his cv and found a load of job agencies he could apply to. He half heartedly rang one and told me he was therefore unemployable because they hadn’t got back to him.
We need a new car as the lease runs out on ours in August. I keep saying the garage said we need to come back 3-4 months before September to eat a new one. He hardly uses a car so it’s me that ends up without if we don’t get a new lease. He’s sat there saying when do we get time to sort a new car out. Erm how about when you’re at your golf lessons (we definitely also have time outside of then)
There’s a lot of work needed doing around the house I’m literally pulling my hair out at what’s not getting done.
I am trying my best to sort everything out but I just don’t know what to do when he mopes about moaning and moaning. He drags our whole household down. I’ve even told him to go to the doctors to see if he’s depressed and I’ll come with him and help him but he just refuses saying nothing wrong with him, he’s not moaning.
I’m so sick and tired of it. I know it’s my fault staying here but I am ill and can’t work and I think that’s part of the frustration. I never imagined I’d be stuck reliant on him and he’s proved how much I shouldn’t be.
I lost it today, he blanks me all the time when I’m speaking to him. Today I just ended up yelling at him when the fuck are we sorting the car out as it will be me taking dd to school without a car somehow and he’s just sitting on his arse. He told me to stop shouting to which I replied I have spoken politely to you for months and you’ve ignored me I’m shouting because it’s the only time you even look at me. He then put his fingers in his ears pretending I was hurting them with my shouting. I know I shouldn’t shout. I just don’t know what to do anymore.