NC for this because previous posts allude to my employer and town.
I'm devastated about Facebook messages between my boyfriend of one year and a woman he recently added - a classmate who was not a close friend of his at school and who he hasn't seen for 20 years. She joined facebook recently. They've messaged a few times a week over the last two months.
He's told her she is "good looking"
He addresses her as "gorgeous" as in "hi gorgeous, how are you" She replies as "hi lovely. I'm ok" or sometimes "gorgeous" too
When she said she was off to the hairdresser he called her a "dark haired goddess"
He's confided in her about problems his daughter has
They've bonded over politics.
They've bonded over the World Cup!
She's talked of how alike they are.
She's empathised about them both being single parents to teenage girls (he's resident parent as is she).
He's said that if he bumps into her at a gig they both happen to be attending in August he'll "buy her a drink" but they've stopped short of making arrangements.
She's less flirty. She seems reserved.
No sex talk.
Things are normal otherwise and he hasn't hidden my existence on Facebook (he posted a nice pic of us at a party on Friday). However,he hasn't mentioned me in the messages at all - for example he saID that "he" went to London for a night - didn't mention me, and I was there.
Am I overreacting?