Moved house 5 days ago I’ve had a migraine due to stress of it all and new job. Partners stressed as he’s working over time
In the evenings and weekends to save a client. I’ve hardly un packed until today although have been doing a bit each evening like half a box. I have also booked Tuesday off to crack on some more. As I’ve started a new job I’ve been knackered when i come home as well as making dinner. Partner gets home to late to really start cooking in the evenings. We are surrounded by boxes. I have way more boxes than him I admit that I will. He’s getting stressed out and can’t see why everything isn’t all away. when I say you haven’t done anything he keeps saying he hasn’t had time as he’s working which is true he’s currently working now. Am I not allowed some rest after work. He also keeps moving my stuff like today I had my foundation on the bathroom shelf he placed it on the floor so he could shave even though there’s plenty of other spaces to put. He hates things being on the window sill I had put a glass there as I had boxes on my side of the bed and didn’t want to knock it over. He put it on the floor said it can’t be on the window sill. I said just for one night until my bedside table turns up. He kept saying no as apparently it will become a habit of leaving it on the window sill. I put it back up there he said if I do it again he will throw the glass out the window. I said you wouldn’t do that to our new glasses so he did. And then told my I told him to do it. I don’t think this kind of behaviour is normal we got into an argument I started crying and hyper ventilating and was gagging as I couldn’t breathe or calm down he just told me to go upstairs as I’ve ruined his work I’m so upset he’s never been like this before we just brought a house together. I’m in bed crying