Heyy everyone
So I've been married for 5 blissful years, I have two children (3,1) and until 6 months ago me and my husband were very much in love with each other. We have always felt like we are each other's strengths. It's been 6 months now that he goes out frequently at night, comes late home, does nothing around the house, not helping much with kids or is just in a mood and snaps at the smallest of things i do. Last week we had a domestic where he was verbally abusive and threatening to break my face and take my kids from me that I rang the police. He left the house with both my kids and called the police sayying I assaulted him and chased him with a knife. I got arrested and released the following morning. He kept kids away from me for few days which was like torture and now even though we agreed including our families to give it one last shot for the kids sake. I asked him why he felt the need to do all that and he frankly said its because if he didn't then I would have had him arrested. It's been 2 weeks and he isn't making any effort, avoiding me, staying out again, minimal conversation, acting like he is upset with me. Why does it hurt so much that he isn't interested in dealing with our issues. Why do I even care and is divorce the only option I have left to having some normality in my life.
Sorry if its a long read but I wanted to give the whole picture.