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He’s got no ambition..

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user1485276096 · 15/06/2018 12:28

I’m just miserable at the moment.

I’ve have been married 3 years and my husband has absolutely no ambitions. He has talents a good singer, a dancer, acting yet he just no ambition to peruse anything but Moans about his normal boring job and his he wishes he could do these as a job but does nothing about it.. all he does is watch football 24/7 to the extent it’s obsessive .

He recently got asked to audition for a certain tv singing program and turned it down and just said he didn’t want to and couldn’t be bothered then carried on to complain about his normal job.

He spends 80 percent of his time watching the football / talking about football or we don’t go out because he wants to watch football and it’s becomd worse lately to the extent that our life will revolve around the football timings.

I’m sick of he lack of ambition, the football obsession the lack of motivation and the complaining but getting offered cool opportunities and turning it down. It’s really depressing to watch and be around. I just want someone has a get up and go attitude and who wants to achieve and be successful...

I’m really driven and have career within hair work and tv and i really push myself as much as I can, my job is my passion... It’s weird to be with someone who is the opposite and it’s starting to grate and take its toll on me mentally being with someone with such a negative mind set all the time and only main focus is watching the football...

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SleepingStandingUp · 15/06/2018 12:30

He sounds depressed.

Has he always been like this? Or is it recent?

Have you talked to him about how much his football obsession is controlling your lives?

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