We’ve been together 4 years and have a 3 year old. Our son was a surprise as we had only been together 10 months before I was pregnant. The first 10 months of our relationship were perfect, the best I had ever had! But ever since I found out I was pregnant it all changed. I found out that he was flirting and kissing someone behind my back, he denies it and she was the one who told me. I forgave him and we stayed together as I was 3 months pregnant and blamed his behaviour on the pregnancy shock. Then our son was born and everything was fine for about 6 months, we were tired but happy. Then I went back to work after 6 or 7 months on maternity and things went downhill. I only worked 3 days a week due to childcare but I did 12 hour days to make up extra. My boyfriend said I was lazy as I only worked 3 days a week as he was still full time. I had a mental breakdown after being back at work for about 4 months and I quit my job. My boy was supportive to start with but we would argue a lot over money etc, I did everything while I was a stay at home Mum, my boyfriend literally did nothing and I mean nothing! Every time we did argue it was over the fact I’m lazy and don’t work, I was seeing a counsellor over my post natal depression and was spending time raising my son aswell as doing absolutely everything including his errands. So after a huge row again over how I’m lazy and I don’t financially contribute I decided to get a job. He’s off at weekends so I work Saturday and Sunday, he’s now moaning that I’m not at home to do the cleaning and to look after our son, but I’m out at work. I’m at my wits end and Im trying my best to do it all but I can’t sometimes. He told me in a drunken stupor the other day that he loved me and I just said pffffft 😩 I do love him and he can be a good day and partner when he wants to be. Some days he’ll ignore us and sit on his xbox all day and not help or even speak to me, other days he gives me a lie in and does everything, I understand that relationships are hard work but I don’t feel like I can do anything right at the mo, what would you do? Thanks for reading xxx