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How can I ask him

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Sunflower579 · 11/06/2018 13:40

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Things are great between us but I found something on his phone that's bothering me . I didn't snoop, he asked me to reply to his friends text whilst he was finishing off getting ready, whilst I was on it I saw the previous messages between my boyfriend and his friend. His friend had sent a couple of pictures with a girl (who wasn't his girlfriend) and what I managed to see was that they both knew her. Didn't get to see exactly what was said but a lot of messages were exchanged about this girl. I don't think it's anything to do with cheating and I wish I had just asked him at the time who she was but I didn't and now I'm over thinking it. The impression I get is that she's my boyfriends ex or someone he's been involved with and his friend has sent him a picture with her which if it is the case, I feel is pretty disrespectful from both of them. I feel if it was something bad he wouldn't of given me the phone in the first place but he could of forgot. It's been bothering me for a few days now and he has picked up on it but I've just said everything's fine. I know I should just leave it because it's probably nothing but any advice would be appreciated. TIA

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FooFighter99 · 11/06/2018 16:31

Just be honest with him. Tell him you saw the picture in his previous text and ask who she is. If he has nothing to hide (which he probably doesn't otherwise he'd have deleted the message) then he'll surely just say "oh she's DF's ex GF"

You are probably overthinking it but it will put your mind at ease if you just ask him. Smile

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