Sex talk

[onceisawabee]

I feel like my bf is always going on about sex.

How often do your DPs mention sex?

Roughly every 8.5 minutes. I have set a timer on my phone to remind me.

Why comment?

Not that often
Does he always want to have sex? Maybe he thinks he's flirting.

He has a pretty high sex drive. Sometimes it's flattering but the sexual innuendos are constant and after the 12th comment about my arse, or catching him looking down my top for the 5th time it gets a little tedious.

I should probably just enjoy it

How long have you been together?

My DH has days where he keeps mentioning it or sees inuendos in everything. Then other days , when he has work or something on his mind I could joggle round him in nowt but nipple tassels and he wouldn't notice.
I find both extremes a bit annoying although the work days are not very flattering!

If you don’t like it, just tell him.

There’s not a one size fits all, answer here. Some people encourage it, others will tolerate it & some will hate it. Your opinion is the only one that matters

Yeah tell him you don't like the constant innuendo

How long have you been with him?

He sounds like a tedious sex pest

How can you respect someone like that, let alone shag them ?

We've been together 5 years. It has been a topic we discuss frequently, it normally simmers down for a few weeks and then it's stars up again.

I mainly wanted to know if others experienced a similar thing

I don't experience the same thing.

Its not just something men do or something you have to accept.

Sorry once, 17 years here,. I think if you're determined to stop him you're going to have to e brutally honest or learn to ignore it. I've got quite blunt when DH does it and he does shut up mostly

How old is he? I would expect a teenaged boy to be sex-obsessed to some degree. But most grow out of it eventually. Some don’t, and it looks like you might have one of those.