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What to do cheating ex

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Mum8515 · 09/06/2018 23:39

My ex got married today & I've known for a few weeks he's been cheating on his now wife. But I've also come to know today he's told a girl he will meet her when he's back from honeymoon & for her to wait for him!

Wtf!

Should I just stay quiet? I didn't know they were getting married yet otherwise maybe wouldn't have opened my mouth to her few weeks ago.

What do I do?

Also Its not that I want him back, im married with a lo & no2 on the way x

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Singlenotsingle · 09/06/2018 23:44

Keep out of it. You'll get branded as the bitter and twisted ex! The W will find out soon enough!

AnneLovesGilbert · 09/06/2018 23:47

Definitely keep quiet and stay out of it.

I found out an ex was cheating on his girlfriend before and after they got married. She was one of the many women he’d cheated on me with so it was poetic justice. She knew what she was getting into bed with. I hear they’re together and make each other miserable - that helps Grin

The woman your ex has married won’t thank you for it and has no reason to believe you.

Myheartbelongsto · 10/06/2018 00:23

Can you send an anonymous message?

That's what I'd do.

Mountainsoutofmolehills · 10/06/2018 00:31

Take a photo. send it anonymously. Revenge is a dish better served cold. Don't leave a trace to you..... Stay outta it :) But good luck. Show this con artist up before this duped woman does anything stupid like get pregnant. She should know.

Amberheartkitty · 10/06/2018 12:19

Tell her. The amount of people that know about cheating and stay bloody quiet! It infuriates me.
If she doesn’t believe you then at least she has had the option of leaving the bastard. It’s her choice to stay after facts.
Don’t let her continue the marriage thinking everything is ok.

Mum8515 · 10/06/2018 22:24

myheartbelongsto how do you send a anonymous message?

Mountains exactly what I was thinking. I know for a fact he adores kids so I think they'll pretty much want a family right away if it's his way!

Amber I feel so sorry for her, poor sole doesn't have a clue what he's like! She's moved all the way from 2hrs away! Doesn't know his reputation yet Shock

Single that's why I'm in two minds. If she does get to know I really don't want her or anyone for that matter know I let the cat out of the bag Wink

Anne glad you got rid of the low life!

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TemptressofWaikiki · 10/06/2018 23:47

You seem a bit too invested in your ex. What has it actually got to do with you. Focus on your own life.

SoapOnARoap · 11/06/2018 07:38

I agree with Temptress

Start living your own life

Mum8515 · 11/06/2018 09:02

temptress a girl is being cheated on and she doesn't even know! I've been cheated on before & it's heartbreaking. Like mountain said above it's better she knows before she gets pregnant! Her choice what she wants to do after she finds out

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eightfacesofthemoon · 11/06/2018 09:15

She won’t believe you but it’s worth a shot. Buy a £5 SIM card and send the evidence via that
Then throw it away

Mum8515 · 11/06/2018 09:31

eight good idea, need to figure a way to get her number first. Only have his number, home address.

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