Hi I need relationship advice. I am working mom of 2 beautiful kids. I am married for 20 years. We both work full time with opposite shifts. We lead a very busy life on top of that my husband has lot of outside interest and hobbies. So he spends most of his time outside and sometimes I am left at home on weekends doing all the cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids
Over the years we have sort of drifted apart. I still crave intimacy but my husband who wasn’t very enthusiastic to begin with is never interested. Now we both have started to sleep in separate bedroom and I have stopped asking or expecting intimacy.
I am thinking about divorce but I think about kids. I don’t have any family support and he does look after them when I am at work and is generally good father when he spends time with them
But I still do need intimacy and I don’t think I can preserve my sanity if I deny my body for too long
Please give me advice