Grateful for your advice. I have been friends with someone for over twenty five years (since we were at school) - I thought we were really close . When her mum died, had children, she had affairs, got divorced: I was there. We had lots of laughter, holidays, fun and good times as well. Unfortunately things have changed-she now has a new boyfriend and I have moved. We used to keep in touch but the calls have got less and less (she gets in touch and says lets catch up and then on the day cancels at the last minute). It wouldn't really matter but I'm going through a really hard time at the moment and could do with her friendship (my Dad is dying -which she knows about). I don't know whether just to forget about her and concentrate on building new friendships but its hard when you have been friends for so long. Just feel really hurt and to be honest a little let down. Should I just forget about our friendship - what would you do?