Son's girlfriend's family is nuts

[astarlight]

My son and his now pregnant girlfriend need to move home with me, her family is all about drama-I don't need it or want it. The girlfriend is a bit off too-but I have main concern for unborn grandchild..I have small house, 3 bedrooms, and have a daughter in nursing school and a young lady living with me now. This weekend, girlfriends family called police on my son, becaue he told them to leave their little house because of screaming and acting like idiots-told the police they were concerned for their daughter-my son would hurt her-the young lady living with me, lost her job, and hasnt paid her rent for this month so far..My son only one working, girfriend thinks cause she's pregnant she cant (5 mnths along)..I want to tell all the others to go away-want my kids at home and screw everyone else. Dont know what to do...

You don't say how old your son and his girl friend are? You say they have a house? I know it's instinctive to open your arms to your son and invite him back home but I wouldn't be so hasty if I were you.
Why is the girlfriend not working? Is it just that she doesn't want to, or does she have complictions with her pregnancy? Unless she is ill could get a little part time job surely?
As for your lodger (?) that is a seperate matter, tell her you need her board, or you will have to ask her to leave as you need the income. May well need a kick up the bum to get a new job.

Thanks for your response-
My son is 20 and GF is 19, no preganancy complications...no work ethic

I rented them a house (foolish me) to help them out, get on their feet....We tried to get a little apt., but GF wanted a small house, and son, trying to make her happy-we went for the small house with guareentees from the kids that they would be able to afford that.

The GF does not work because as she put it "she just wasnt "feelin kmart"...she had a job there for 15hrs a week, and that lasted about 3 weeks...

My boarder, I feel horrible for her, both parents are dead, she is 21, but, she has been with me for 6 months and had to threaten her once before..and now this. I feel horrible she has no where to go if I kcik her out..

Maybe I need the kick in the bum.!