I should start by stating clearly I am incredibly sympathetic to her position. It must be incredibly difficult and telling her I was pregnant was hard for us (esp as I never really wnated children).
Initially she was quiet and withdrawn which I understood and sometimes snappy but again understandable.
Now I've reached full term almost and am huge and really struggling due to pain/sleeplessness and the heat. She has changed and is downright aggressive /being rude.
She keeps telling me how lucky is am and I shouldn't moan. I know this, I do, but am exhusted. She sent me a page long message at seven am saying im lazy and not doing enough around my own house and garden or supporting my mom/dad with their house enough. I physically can't do hard gardening like cutting down hedges etc at the momment. My house is clean but not spotless as again I get so tierd. I can do it after bbay but not in my current giant whale state as can't reach floors etc.
My partner has offered to take my dad out for some days as he can't drive at the momment but again I'm limited as to what I can do to help. My partner also is annoyed as he would be happy to help but hasn't been asked.
She also told me she was going to be godmother as she can't have a kid as that's what she needs to be okay with it IE my baby. I was going to ask both my sister's anyway but now I'm uncomfortable as she's being nasty.
Again I should add she's started another round of treatment so is on massive amounts of hormones and stress. I really do appreciate how difficult this is but I have no idea what to do to try and help or minamise the emotional damage.
Anyone here been through this and got any advice?