Hubby and women

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I don't know if I'm being silly but my hubby always looks at women not on occasion but all the time. I know men do but it's to the extreme. I'm not confident so it really doesn't help me. That sad he is really confident. I have spoken to him and he says he people watches. I have never known anyone to people watch like that! If we are out he is so busy looking iv got to the point of saying I'm not going. We are due to have a meal out this week. Iv never noticed other men but I am now which I think is strange. I'm sure it's me overreacting and that's how he makes me feel. I do find it hard to deal with. Any comments?

One assumes that people get used to others ways. Like Iv said I'm not perfect but clearly I'm not used to it. I guess there has to be a compromise which i know but I still don't find it easy. Lots women wouldn't worry I know my mother has said it wouldn't bother her. I guess we are all different

He never comments about people though and I thought that was part of people watching.

Does he watch men as well as women? Groups or individuals?

Watching and leering are different. I watch people too..
Ser what they're wearing...hairstyles etc

He did watch a man the other week as he was making a show and he mentioned it but everyone could see.

From what I notice it's just women but maybe I'm wrong.

Do you discuss your people watch or just sit there making no conversation looking?

Maybe it's people watch he does. I'm unsure. Hence asking for opinions.

Thanks

Please stop saying men do it. It's a poor excuse to explain creepy behaviour.

Creeps do it.