I have recently lost my mum, which was sudden and a shock. My brother and I have been dealing with all the funeral arrangements, probate, chattels etc etc. It has been a very emotional time. My husband hasn’t been as supportive as I would want. Last night for example he’d had enough of what I wanted to talk about and just held his hand up to dismiss me. Anyway this morning he apologised for upsetting me and hoped I would forgive him. I said I had no choice, he replied that I do have a choice if I wanted to go down that route. What does that mean? I don’t have anyone to talk to, so thought this group might be a good shoulder to cry on.