Why is he being like this again?

[Twinkletwinklelittleone]

For the past few months DH has been distancing himself from us (me and 2 DC). There is no other woman, but he is constantly in a bad mood and trying to find things wrong. His latest revelation was that our money was 'his'money since he works full time and I am a SAHM to our two DC, one of whom has special needs.

We recently went on holiday and he was 90% back to his normal self, happy and involved. I was over the moon.

Then the past couple of days he has reverted back to barely speaking to me, sitting upstairs or outside all weekend, whilst I have done everything and all childcare.

I am devastated that he has gone back to this awful tension. I just want to cry and I don't know why he is being so cruel.

If I act happy, he acts cold. If I act upset and ignore him, he asks me what's wrong all the time. It's like some sort of game. I can't take it much longer.

He just seems to be eternally pissed off at me, holding me in contempt

I suggest you read The Verbally Abusive relationship by Patricia Evans.It might help you understand what is going on.If you can't call him out on his behaviour you can't fix it.

You don"t deserve to be treated this way, you need to know its not you.Get some support from your family, don't keep this a secret.