My marriage is over

[LetMeGo66]

I’m absolutely gutted. Together 8 years and married 4 years. 2 kids. I don’t even know how we’re going to tell the kids it’s going to break their hearts.
Deep down I know this is the right decision as we have issues that we just haven’t been able to resolve. But I love him so much, the thought of him meeting another woman is killing me. I never thought this would happen.

Please spam me with happy divorce stories where you were gutted but ended up happy.

Letmego I’m glad you’ve been feeling more positive! Definitely work towards getting your driving license. Try to enjoy that alone time, it’s taken me a while old habits die hard but I’m look forward to being on my own now I treat myself to a warm bath, foot soak and paint my nails. Or a tv series.

I’ve been so up and down the last couple of days. I feel so alone, I don’t understand how I’m ever going to meet someone new or feel as close to them as I do my husband, we know each other inside out and share babies. I hate feeling like this, I don’t even know why I miss him it clearly wasn’t right between us.

Thing is, LetMeGo, you don't need to focus on meeting someone else or feeling close to them. You need to focus on YOU. When you feel happy and whole by yourself, then you will feel more like meeting other people and forming a new relationship.

Thank you Zap I know your right, I’m just a born worrier and can’t help looking so far ahead and being fearful of the future.