Hello, I am new to this site.
Just needed to talk to other people about how I am feeling atm.
Fiance left 3 months ago totally heart broken. We were getting married this summer. I have an 8 year old who he classed as a son and he has just walked out. We’ve been friends for 11 years, together for 5 years. LIved together. We had been having arguments on and off since last June about (withhelding rent/house problems/went to court over rent) which led to him walking out longest was a week then 3 months ago, I had a lot going on family I’ll health etc and I went away for a week to look after my grandparent. We came home and over the week we argued about stupid various things especially about the lack of affection I was craving after him being distant whilst I away.
On the Saturday he has a works do, stayed out which I didn’t mind but when he came home we argued again and he said he was going out. Then later on he said he was going to pack a few things because the arguments were getting too much. But they were for me too. A week later with hardly any contact he ended it by text. Saying we should call it a day before we ended up hating each other.
Seen each other since said we’d maje another go of it but he has completely shut us out. Also found out loads of money issues but in past that I was unaware of. Then a week later his mum suddenly died. I went to the funeral where he hugged me and promised to contact me but he didn’t. That was end of April, it was son’s birthday beginning of May. He sent a present but didn’t call. Then it was my birthday and I didn’t get a text. I sent him a letter talking about everything from beginning to end but had no reply. HAvent contacted him since beginning of May.
Feel so lost and heartbroken not just me but for my son because he was his dad.
Thanks for reading.