DH just spent the night away on business. I asked how the hotel breakfast was and he said fine - said he went on his own as he wanted time to himself before his conference. Later mentioned breakfast again but this time as if he was with someone. I asked him why he said he’d been alone when he was with someone. He said he had gone on his own at 7:30 because he’d arranged to meet others at 8 and wanted 30 mins to himself. Seemed a bit strange so when he left the room I grabbed his phone (I know I know...) and there was a message sent from him at 7:30 to a female colleague saying hey just heading to breakfast now fancy joining me (she replied yes)
It’s pretty odd. Why lie about that and with specific timings? It’s just breakfast? I’ve never in our whole relationship displayed any jealous behaviour so I’d be surprised if he lied because he thought I’d go batshit at the thought of him having breakfast with someone.
I know I shouldn’t have read the message - I’ll come clean to him about that. I just had a weird gut instinct. Im heavily pregnant right now and feel like my hormones might be making this a bigger deal than it is so thought I’d post on here to see if it seems odd to anyone else or nothing? Thanks