DH has had a text saying I've cheated

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From a number he doesn't recognise, I don't recognise, nothing on WhatsApp, nothing on Facebook. I haven't cheated. He believes me thank god! How do I find out who this massive dick is?

I'm so angry! I haven't done anything, wtf do I do?

Looks to be a 13 year old boy from lewisham

You have to tell his parents, what a little shit!

Well it is the school holidays.
What a fucking dickhead.
See if he's friends with his parents and tell them about it.
Glad you found out who it is though and you can now both laugh about it.
(When you've calmed down)

Weird, Facebook shouldn’t do that anymore following the privacy changes.

I don't know about that, but if you've ever posted your number on a FB post set to public, it'll come up.

I just checked with DP's number, there are 4 times he's posted it, for example.

ohhhh i really want to know how this ends. What's the little squirt gonnae do when his mum finds out!?

Look for his mum on his profile then grass him up little turd

I’d send a message to the parents.

Yes, completely grass him up

Well! That's one kid who will lose all of his tech privileges for the half term!

Tell his parents

a) Their son has a dirty mind and a vindictive streak
b) He has left his fb settings wide open which could lead to future issues unless he gets security savvy (but without it sounding threatening!)

Silly little boy. I bet he and some mates have had a really good snigger about this!

Sounds like you need to report this little shite!

Yes, tell his parents. He absolutely deserves to get into trouble for this.

Weirdly I've had a similar thing happen this week. Someone messaged from a fake account on Facebook to tell me my DP cheated on me a couple of years ago and the woman's marriage had broken up as a result. Why do people bother being so horrible? This kind of thing can be completely life-changing.

Definitely grass him up!

text

"Hello FirstName Secondname aged 13 from Lewisham, I know who you are and will be forwarding the messages to your head and your mum shortly" that'll freak him out! (and stop him doing it to someone else)

Phone the number from a different phone. They might answer. Try and hold a small conversation to see if you recognise the voice.

Oh sorry didn't read the rest of the posts

I added his Mum who was listed in his relationships as - 'Mum' on messenger and sent her a message about what he's been up to. She was mortified. Then I sent the screenshots of the conversation with his Mum to him. I've been blocked now as I tried to send a 'don't be such a prat' message after the screenshots were read and it wouldn't deliver.

I have had a nice chat with his Mum though who was very embarrassed. Hope she doesn't get him to ring me 😬😂

Silly boy. Thank you for calming me down though! I just didn't know what to think or do when DH told me

Nice one OP.
Poor mum would know naff all about it.
At least now she can put him right!

If you do shop him to his parents make sure you hide your details, I wouldn't want to give mine out. Thank goodness your OH believed you.

Excellent.

Nice one. The little arsehole deserved it.

well done on the detective work!

You might want to point out to his mum that sending this text to a random number could have resulted in injury or death had he sent it to an abusive partner.

At the very least it could have caused suspicion, accusations, separations - possibly splitting up families with kids.

Ha! Silly little twit, I would relish dobbing him in like that!

I was going to say the same as ticking though, I'd have started with a "Hello Gary Jenkins" (or whatever) message to make his blood run cold.

Hope she gives him a good talking to and he loses his SM/technology for a while. He could have caused some major grief to someone's relationship. Chances are its not the first time he has done it either.

Nice one OP. The embarrassment should be enough to deter him from ever doing anything like this again