Hi just come out of a long term relationship where I was lied to and deceived , so my spider senses are on alert , in a new relationship which is going well, different type of guy to my normal type, however he told me yesterday he was concerned/ upset about some news about a person he was seeing before me , new information I thought I was his first date since his marriage break up, anyway apparently this person he has known for about 18 months then started seeing after his marriage broke down , has recently tried to commit suicide , she told him it was down to him , I said that’s not fair to blame anyone for that, it’s emotional blackmail , but I am now thinking he must have been having an affair whilst married , which obviously was before me, but I cannot abide liers, he promises this was finished before me , I am thinking I need to watch out as I am really falling for him , what’s everyone’s view on this ? He was upset about it and did tell me so that’s one thing, I wouldn’t have found out as we live some distance away from each other