But he's a married man

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Neighbours across the road have split up and I've always thought he was nice, I went to school with his now ex so it's a grey area?!

We wave and say morning ect but it's not common knowledge that he's alone and she's gone off with someone else many months ago.

He's now added me on social media I wanna talk to him but I dunno how as I'm not meant to know!

Any suggestions there are also children involved in his part

How do you know then if you're not meant to? But anyway if the ex fucked off with someone else then you've got no reason not to go for it

I don’t see why you can’t talk to him, go for it!

I know cz my house faces his so I put two and two together and also I saw her with some one else.

But what did I say ha

Just chat in a neighbourly way. He might volunteer the info

I’d want to check the facts first.

Maybe she’s gone to stay with her sister who is ill and the person you saw her with is her brother, who came to collect her?

Who knows . Best to check I think.

Might be awkward if things don't work out and he lives opposite you. Although that's looking quite far into the future!

Huh? You put two and two together because you saw her doing what with another man?

Unless you have also seen the decree absolute come through while looking over the fence id stay away. Someone adding you as a friend on facebook is not a sign that they want you as there next mrs...
Rebound maybe an option though