I have been supportive to my partner of 2 years regarding medical investigations he had which included screenings for suspected bowel cancer. I attended all of his appointments even arranged my work diary to enable me to accompany him and missed part of my sisters hen party just so I could attend an appointment with him. It turned out he was ok.
I had a hospital medical appointment that I mentioned to my partner a couple of times, a month prior. He did not offer to accompany me at any time but I just dismissed it. Anyway, i mentioned it again the day before the appointment. We get to the day of the appointment and he didn’t remember the appointment. It turns out I have to have an operation. I came home and went about my business. He then called and I mentioned I had just got back from the hospital. He asked how it went and I explained I was to have an operation. He then starts to get annoyed as to why I didn’t call him directly after the appointment to tell him about the op. I let off at him reminding him of how supportive I was about his medical investigations and how he lacked support of my situation. I felt very hurt. He sent a lame text later in the evening saying sorry for “forgetting the appointment”.
I still feel hurt and upset that he offered no support when I did to him without a doubt. Its nearly a week later and I still feel upset. Why can’t i move forward.