My dh has been acting a bit odd recently. Criticising me, saying hurtful things about issues he knows I'm sensitive about, and not saying it once but several occasions and not apologising, despite knowing it upsets me.
He's starting to also have more evening meetings, I thought were going to last until 9pm but he was back earlier than I expected him both times.
He keeps denying nasty things he has said during arguments but highlighting nasty things I've said.
Last weekend, we were meant to go out for dinner and he deliberately said something nasty on the way there which then pissed me off, because he knows that I don't feel very educated because of my background and it never used to bother him that I wasn't as educated as him.
He keeps wondering off then telling me to go away, when I wonder where he is and go to see if he is ok. However, when I do go and see if he is ok, he tells me to go away and leave him alone.
Tonight was the last straw, I come to bed thinking that he was behind me and thought I heard him crying so I went back downstairs after him not coming up for 20 minutes. I come into the living room, with him in the dark looking at his phone. After me questioning why he was behaving oddly, he said he wanted to be away from me and alone again. He would not tell me why he was on his phone in the dark at 12.35 am. I said whatever if he doesn't start to respect me, he might find that actually I will leave him alone for good as I deserve, to be treated better than how he has treated me recently.
I don't know what to do, why would he be on his phone in the dark!!
He is just pushing me away and I've had enough.