What would you do?

[Inexperiencedchick]

Have been dating a guy and raised the issue with waiting. End up waiting for him every date for 30 min or hour...
His reply was: “if you don’t wait for me with love, then don’t wait...”
I told him that it’s disrespectful of my time and effort. He just said: “next time wait max 5 min and if I’m not around, don’t wait...”

I am keeping away from him at the moment, and I’m hurt.

After those words I said him “maybe we should take a break?”

I’m not getting it wrong, am I?

Quiet at the moment.

To be honest I walked out on him few times already, but came back as thought he is good. And this time I think he is okay for us finishing it, it looks mutual decision.

Sometimes I get upset as it hurts but then... I always believed that a man should earn a woman’s love and it comes naturally on its own. He blamed me for not loving him, which is pathetic... it’s been only few months and these words...
At some point I even caught myself on the thought of having feelings for him but was cautious to say it out loud.
I guess it doesn’t matter.

Sounds like a train wreck.
Seriously move on

Get out now whilst its easy. Youve done the right thing. He sounds like an arrogant arse. It also does sound mutual, he doesnt seem bothered- you would always be on the back foot with him blowing hot and cold.

He asked at the last date: “what is happiness for me?”

My reply was: “freedom.”

I guess it said it all.

Jesus love, just end it.

Then have a serious chat with yourself about why you’ve been accepting such shitty treatment by anyone.

For the future, when you realise someone’s being a twat to you and you walk away, don’t then go back. That’s screams you don’t think you’re worth more and sets the bar ever lower.

You’re worth so much better than this and if you let him continue to walk all over you he’ll continue to do it! He’s telling you who he is and what he thinks of you.

Enough!