my h started taking himself off to stay with OW recently telling me he was working away. this is not the first time. I found out and asked him to move out. He did. He won't leave us alone though. He has been abusive for years only I didn't see it, I thought i was not good enough and if i tried harder I would make him happy. When he gets bored he fills his time abusing me. Since he has left he rings up to be abusive when he is bored. He also comes to the house. It's very intimidating. Is there anything I can do to keep him away? The house is in joint names.