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My boyfriend has told me he can't see himself being with anyone else?

10 replies

Liley123 · 23/05/2018 17:07

We've been together nearly nine months and i'm moving in soon. He used to say he didn't want to get married but now he's considering it. Is it just the honeymoon stage?

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CourtneyLovely · 23/05/2018 17:23

I'm not sure what you're asking here? Your relationship is progressing as relationships do and he's said something incredibly romantic and sweet. What's the issue?

gamerchick · 23/05/2018 17:24

Well if you're horrified you probably shouldn't move in.

If not it's nice to know that he sees a future with you isn't it?

PinguDance · 23/05/2018 22:26

I had a boyfriend say this to me then dump me shortly afterwards. So: who knows?

HipsterAssassin · 23/05/2018 22:28

Well yup. Honeymoon stage.

But - enjoy it! It’s not the time for deciding on marriage though..

sunshinesoup · 23/05/2018 22:35

Depends. Who is he? Do you know his past? His family? Is there a bitter crazy ex story?

Might be lovely and happy ever after

Or might just be empty words in a honeymoon stage

NotTheFordType · 23/05/2018 22:51

If your goal is monogamy then surely it's a good sign?

Personally I'd run for the fucking hills but that's just me :D

Heartofglass12345 · 23/05/2018 22:54

What do you want for the future? You were still going to move in with him even though he said he didn't want to get married, now he is rethinking, do you still want to move in? Do you want to get married at some point in the future?

fantasmasgoria1 · 24/05/2018 10:03

My fiancé proposed after five months, I’m glad he did, it’s getting on for two years now and going very strong. People can propose during the honeymoon period and be serious. It depends what you want!

Heartofglass12345 · 24/05/2018 10:06

@fantasmasgoria1 I agree, my husband proposed to me after 4 months and we got married and had a baby a year after we met. But I was late 30's and he was mid 30's so we both wanted something serious

Heartofglass12345 · 24/05/2018 10:07

Late 20's! My autocorrect is ageing me lol

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