A few months back my Mother in law came to my house, which i admit was a bit untidy as i have 4 children and it was a weekend. a few days later she called my partner and said that my house is a mess, shes been round a few times and it has been like that. now my partner called me and said his mum said the house was disgusting! i was furious and so send her a message saying that she dose not help when she comes over she leaves her belongings everywhere, front room kitchen and bathroom. i also said her son was a man child as he also does not clean up after himself and hes like having another child. i said if any one else has a problem send them the message as well.i also said she was not welcome in my home.
fast forward 3/4 months we still haven't spoken and my partner feels like we should have a 'chat' she came over to our house and she saw me an said erg when she realised i was in the room and i said u alright she said yeah im good. frosty! then when the time came for 'the chat' she approached me with hands on his saying how she wasn't happy with the message i sent her. i replied well i wasnt happy with what you said behind my back. she said well should be able to say what ever i want to my son. and i said well he can also say whatever he wants to me. and she said well i didn't think he was stupid enough to tell u. she was mad basically as i think she came expecting an apology which she did not receive. i also forgot to add that she sent the message to his whole family and sent it to me by mistake when she was supposed to send to her other son the night he was due to stay at our house. obviously trying to stir up something.
I just want to know who's in the wrong. me or her? where do i go from here!??