Not strictly relationships, but hoping this is the most appropriate place to post! I just feel so incredibly guilty about how easy my life is compared to my closest friends, who are all struggling with divorce's, domestic violence, managing full time jobs and childcare. I offer to do as much for them as I can - childcare, school pickups, cooking, babysitting but I cannot shake the feeling that it's not enough.
I feel guilty I didn't know about how bad their relationship problems were, that I should have done more and I know they'd all tell me not to be so silly. DH tells me I'm being ridiculous and I shouldn't be so involved with their lives, but if your friends don't prop you up in the tough times who does?
Any idea's on how I can feel better?