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vickylisa1980 · 22/05/2018 13:02

please help with advise
my ex has a new partner who had her children taken away from her . I don't know the ins and outs as they won t tell me and I know this happens as I was fetched up in care my self so I'm not been judgemental . but can I stop her seeing my child .not him ... just her till I know if my child is at any risk ?
how would i do this
thank you so much

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notagain2018 · 22/05/2018 13:53

I Hope someone can come along with some practical advice for you. I totally agree that you need to know why she had her kids removed before you allow yours to spend time with her.
Could you perhaps try calling social services to ask them? They might not be allowed to tell you but I would expect they have a duty of care towards your children's safety if this was a major issue.

Hideandgo · 22/05/2018 13:55

It depends on the reason hers were removed. Is she living with your ex? I think you need to speak to a solicitor.

Melliegrantfirstlady · 22/05/2018 13:57

All you need to do is ring your local SS duty team. Explain what you have above. They will then advise you what to do next.

If she is a risk they will definitely tell you. Although they may not tell you why.

vickylisa1980 · 22/05/2018 14:41

they don't live together no . however when I have asked for her not to be involved with the access of the child he refuses and says she can see her . thanks 😀

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