Thanks I just split with partner, how do you know that you did the right thing?

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It’s been coming a long time, and just had ‘the chat’ . Now I’ve got loads of doubts even though I was so sure before. I’m so fucked, earn crap money, got 2 children, he won’t make it easy for me. Why did I do this?

So yeah, now he’s refusing to talk to me, even though I’ve been saying the same thing for 12 months at least, I know I’ll be the bad one in this situation

I’m no help but have same concerns but haven’t had the chat.

In a similar situation! I read somewhere to 'take one small step and then consider your next one'. Is helping me to not feel overwhelmed (and a bit like an astronaut!). Best of luck to you.

Same situation here too. Like others have said, one decision at a time. Focus on today, on the decisions you have to make today.

So what if you’ll be the bad one. You know the truth and you know that the things you’ve said are true. Or you wouldn’t have said them. I think being painted as the bad one comes with the territory. I am also fully expecting to be seen as an ungrateful family wrecker.