Okay, this is the first time I've ever posted on here. Bit of background.... married for 15 years, early 40s, 2 kids. I basically married my best friend, still have lots of laughs and enjoy his company immensely. However, at the end of the day I married a friend so things, intimately, have drifted.
Anyway, I wanted to know how other women, or men, would react to the following. We were invited to a friend's 40th birthday tonight but couldn't get a babysitter. He has arranged to meet his male friends instead and has left me looking after the kids. So off he's gone. I'm usually pretty laid back and enjoy my own company but it has bothered me this time. I haven't said anything and we rarely argue but I don't think I would have dumped him when it's an invite for the both of us. And the fact that he has, without a second thought, has left me feeling pretty low. I rarely go out. My life is work and kids. So maybe that's what's bugging me. Are my feelings uncalled for? How would anyone else react?