Why hasn't he asked me out ?

[bitchinginkitchen]

So I have met a guy through work and heard from numerous people he likes me, he seems to go out of his way to come talk to me etc but still hasn't asked me out.

Last night we were out socially with a group and a lot of the group were mucking about saying we should go out on date etc and even basically invited us to a couple day at races together

When the others were mucking about I just laughed and told them to stop as embarrassing me, he didn't say anything just laughs along and agreed I was attractive etc.

This has been going on now for couple of weeks but he still hasn't asked me out or for number etc

I know I could ask him but I'm more of the thinking if he was interested he would ask me.

Do you think this is a lost course ?

i think there's too much pressure from other people.

Could be right, yesterday was a funny day and we just couldn't get to talk without the whole group

Just ask him out. He may have taken you saying you were embarrassed as not being interested. When he agreed you were attractive in the group, did you say you thought he was lovely/fit/cute at all?

I agree with eddie

He's just not that into you. Or maybe he just wants to be friends. Or maybe you have something in your life that he isn't interested in dating (when I was single and childfree, for example, I'd never date a person who had kids). I'd move on.

No I didn't I very nearly said " leave him alone he's a big boy and he would ask me out himself if he wanted to" but chickened our last minute

All over signs of him likening me flirting etc are there

You should just ask him. Life’s too short