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gut instinct?

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krista21 · 19/05/2018 10:27

rant tme !! theres this girl that's my boyfriends friends girlfriend. ive always had a strange vibe about her,i know they like each other and I'm not just being paranoid! i know when to trust my gut instinct on sly females!! I'm losing my mind! I'm pregnant with mine and my boyfriends 2 child i feel like a fucking oaf. maybe I'm just jealous of her cause it seems she spends more time with my boyfriend then i do!! i got that feeling that theres something that wants to happen between them,im getting so upset over all this! i wanna cry and stab my boyfriend (figure of speech) I'm just going out of my mind with them two! I'm having dreams about them two and hes having lesbian dreams about me and her!! the bitch is even in his dreams! might give her the nickname freddy kreugar. i only hang around with her cause i wanna keep her under my nose. has anyone else felt like this and been right? what can i do to make sure she stays in her lane and far away from my fucking boyfriend!!!! ahhhhhh:(

OP posts:
FissionChips · 19/05/2018 11:01

Well, if your boyfriend doesn’t want to cheat then he won’t. If he wants to then he will.

Olddear · 19/05/2018 11:03

What steps are you taking to make sure your boyfriend stays in his lane and far away from his friend?

Thingsdogetbetter · 19/05/2018 11:05

That's a lot of hate for a vibe! If there is an issue with your bf liking her back surely it's him you should be talking to? I presume when you say like you mean fancy. There will always be women that 'like' your bf, but as he is in a committed relationship it is his responsibility to put out clear taken signals.
What concerns me is that your by is spending more time with his mates than with his pregnant f2f and child.
He can't control his dreams, but what did he expect to gain by telling his already insecure pregnant gf about it?

MMmomDD · 19/05/2018 18:35

OP - why are you having a 2nd child with a man you don’t trust?
Do you think children would bind him to you?

And - she isn’t a ‘sly’ female.
Men aren’t prizes women fight about.
And if you need to hang around your bf to keep him out of harms way - your relationship has already failed.
It’s just a matter of time.

Sorry.

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