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Is this limerence?

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Furiousaboutinstarubbish · 17/05/2018 17:33

Met lovely man in jan. Got on really well. Fast forward to april i adore him and assume all going well so mutual. Then he told me he was dating other people. I was horrified. I gave him the choice of either exclusivity or ending it, we ended it.
I was gutted.

Since then, over a month ago, he has messaged me almost daily with links and memes, almost always with no explanation as to why he is sending them.

I just dont understand why, as he obviously does not care for me, would this continue? Obviously my hopes are raised with each substanceless message. If he actually cares hed say so, right. I have come close to asking why, but pride stops me.

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DaisyLux · 18/05/2018 11:21

Breadcrumbing! A new one for me, but sounds so on-the-money!

"sweet chap" I'm not so convinced OP but maybe he is just vain insecure.

Anyway, phew, we can all breathe a sigh of relief.

Furiousaboutinstarubbish · 18/05/2018 12:58

Thanks daisy. Yes blocked him on messenger, which was his main way of contacting me. Deleted his number on my phone so not blocked, but small chance he will get in touch on that once he realises hes blocked on messenger. Feel as though ive kept my dignity, just, but sad that i got sucked in and didnt block sooner. Would have saved me holding out for him for a month. Thanks all again Flowers

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