Delete if this isn’t allowed but just wondered if I could ask you lovely lot some unbiased advice please? I’ve been with my partner a year but it has been a little up and down and I’ve had doubts. Sometimes things are great but we argue frequently. Like this morning... things got quite heated and he got in my face and shouted at me etc . He has never hit or hurt me physically. However, he refused to leave my house and in the end I called the police to have him removed. I realise it went too far but I’m left wondering what to do about 1) our relationship and 2) our holiday. We are booked to go abroad at the end of July. If I cancel now we lose our £200 deposit and get the rest back. In 9 days time we start losing more as the holiday gets closer. I was so cross and upset this morning I loaded the website up to cancel but I just couldn’t bring myself to do it as I’ve so been looking forward to going!
Sorry, know it’s not ideal posting in here but I just wondered what people think from an outsiders perspective and what you would do. I don’t have many friends to talk to and wondered if you could share your wisdom and help me decide what’s the right thing to do. Please be kind xxx