NC for this just in case -sorry if this is long. Just have no idea what to do.
My ex made my pregnancy an absolute nightmare. He was absolutely horrible and I spent pretty much the entire 9 months crying over stuff he had done. If I tried to go NC with him he'd tell people I was stopping him from having contact with the baby and his (very wealthy) parents said they would supply him with a fantastic solicitor so he would get full custody of our child or at least unsupervised contact. I was desperate for this not to happen and so I kept contact with him (as amicable as possible) and we arranged when he could see her etc.
So it was 3 times a week and then either a Saturday or a Sunday. That was all fine and sorted and she was born but low and behold - he constantly makes excuses to change days, or not come or to leave early. has never seen the baby on a weekend (just doesn't show up and then normally comes up with a weird excuse)
What am I supposed to do? I want to go mental at him and say no more contact because I cba. Waiting in all day for him for him to just not show up. but I don't want him to take me to court because he absolutely cannot look after this child by himself. He's just not capable. I've even offered him to see the baby with someone else there instead of me (his mum or something) and it's refused. He says he likes spending time all together ??? (I try and make myself as scarce as I can when he is round -by that I mean I go in the room next door and sort washing or something and nip in every 10 mins or so)
But anyway wtf do I do? I'm sick of him and his BS excuses. I wish he'd just F off. He basically just comes round to take pictures of the baby for instagram then leaves whilst I'm left looking after the baby and providing everything for her (he doesn't have to pay maintenance because he is a student) but he can however afford car parts and expensive meals out with his new partner :)
Rant over- advice sooo appreciated