Dp thinks he only one working in the world n rude

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So me n Dp been together 16 yrs sept..2 Dcs ds n dd...ds pain in ass but most will say same at 12 yrs...dd ok...getting the neck movement in and the attitude but beyyer than bs on behaviour lol atm...kmt...ANYWAYS

Dp just came home all was well..i got broke foot n i norm go my moms sundays but cba tbf so cooked early as he likes it early..done everything...washed ironed etc WITH 1 foot i know woe is me but yh WOE IS ME..prick sits there cussing cause ds playing gob I kicked off n he standing there like a prick letting it happen..so i say aint ya gonna say something to son which tbf he does normally..but after ive dealt with problem...hes like... well respect ya mom..well yeah but too late n he dont need 2 cussing esp 1 cussing 3 days later... anyways so dinner time..he went work finishes dinner time so ran his bath done chicken roast mash veg yorkies n he telling me im too slow dishing up even though foot BROKE n i stormed off told him serve kids n his fucking self n hopped upstairs..am I being a bitch after just taking back THIS waster who yh is ok cause he got job but sits smoking weed getting high..going in fucking moods n pissing me off..weed dont bother me
.my dad done it n still worked m treated me n mom good so dont need no anti drugs campaign n he is n ok prick but good dad..just loves to sit n chat shit n make me feel shit then makes jokes about me playkng THE broke foot card

Tbf i got alot to say about us n this is straw breaking camels back

I’m sorry but could you write this in English please?

You're going to need to rewrite that in proper English please

Sounds like you'd be happier and better off without him around.

Ive tried to read this post a couple of times, and I'm afraid I cannot understand it. Please could you rewrite it

Errrr

I see.....

I'd leave him for being a druggie.

It's pretty basic guys
She is with a guy who is making her feel unsupported and unappreciated.
He's set in his way, and she is used to it, but it still hurts.

Weed in your dad’s day was nothing compared to the current weed potency. It should be an issue for you, especially regarding your dc. Being dismissive about that is a mistake on your part, imho.

He has a job, that is nice. But it doesn’t mean he walks on water-why are you using that as an excuse to put up with his utter contempt of you?

What does yh stand for? Sorry, you’ve used it twice, so I assume it isn’t a typo or predictive text.

If you are unhappy in a situation and have the power or ability to change it, then you should do.

What would happen if you split up? Do you rent or own your home? Do you have other support?

I'm old and I understood it. He sounds horrible, what do you plan to do?

It's very easy to understand, you're all just being mean. OP, he sounds awful!!

I can read and understand it!
He doesn't sound nice.

LTB.
He's not loving, supportive, helpful or even sober.
How exactly is he a "good Dad"??

Are some people taking piss..yh means yeah..took me a while to understand what ds n dd n xdp etc stood for but REALLY no one KNOWS what yh means...ok

N no i DONT give a shit bout his habit..i pay my own..what i give a shit ABOUT his is FUCKING facety attitude and making me feel like im a nut all the time cause i moan..maybe i do as some of my mates moan about same shit but dont say to dh faces...im just in a mood really.i do alot for my community old n young and i do feel like your nearest n dearest would recognise that n help out when you cant do it yourself and was basically asking aibu for cussing him when ive got an injury and he being rude after he just finished a 7 till 12 shift scaffolding

We been through the mill..he tries but seems like he only tries when i get up n start doing housework which i am finding difficult on 1 foot with broken heel...he is a great dad..does alot wih kids n my mates kids too helping out taking them all..but sometimes i know i sound a bitch..he doesn't do anything UNTIL Im nearly done or he hears me huffing n puffing..im fed up of coming across the miserable one when all im asking is for him to recognise its not just my house its ours and that means help out reagardless of working or not..i work3d for years shifts all hours n still made time to cook clean wash hoover mop iron etc

Yh bt no bt

Lol..cheered me up xx

Hope you understood that 😉

So what do you want to do? Do you want to stay with him? Are you financially secure and able to make your own way?

Yh lola..we fell out before cause got together young blah blah etc but alot stronger..the thing is he has a stinking attitude when he talks..he looks moody anyways you know dark haired thicj eyebrows rarely smiles but polite look vut his attitude omg..you wpukd smack him..its not about leaving hun its the flipping way he talks..its rude..then he makes out like all is ok when i kick off and then i look a cow cause i wont forgive thay easily..i wont argue cause like most men its in n out but i give the dirty looks and YES/NO attitude back then i feel shitty for being childish

Think i just want him to lighten up and realise that i need help from time to time..im not super woman and i look after my kids my mates kids help all and look after elderly parents one with dementia that im honestly finding hard because other parent wont accept help and expects me to do it all..he knws I'm feeing bad as only child that cany help much with broken foot so help me and kids thats all im asking

Clarification..last post confusing...im an only child..mom with dementia..dad wants me to do all..he refuses help from gov..i knw but stuck in his ways..so i do expect my partner to help n not make me feel shit like i already do..